Why do girls like bad boys?

All of my friends know that i fall for bad guys, and even from a sight i can tell if he is one of them.They are magnetic, i just can't help it. It leads to the question: why do girls like bad guys?
Here are the reasons, why i like them...







1. Bad guys are down-to-earth, they lead, they make decisions - they never hide behind you to shift the responsibility. It drives me crazy when a guy who i date with, wants me to decide where to go, which movie to wacth, what to eat... Wake up guys, it is not our responsibility. Take over control.

2. Bad guys don't care about others' opinions. They just do their thing, like the whole world is in their hands. They simply say, wear and do whatever they want, and they are not afraid to express their views. Let's say out loud, this attitude is extremly attractive!

3. Bad guys are spontanious. They like adventures, and life is always exciting with them. They are not afraid of dangerous things or breaking rules - yes, they might make many mistankes but they also accept you the way you are. Bad guys just live.

4. A bad guy will never give up on you. If he is in love, he doesn't care about any other people, only you. If you don't answer your phone, he won't stop trying to reach you like a good guy who doesn't want to bother you but he will cross the whole city to be with his love. He is not afraid of fighting, he would - and can - do anything for his girlfriend. Bad guys are strong, passionate, brave - maybe thats why they are amazing lovers. What else do you need?

5. Bad guys don't want to change you. A good guy might make you read the books he like, listen to the music he like, and stop/quit the things he doesn't like, he wants you to be the perfect gilr in his perfect world. A bad guy doesn't care if you two are different. They just want you to love them the way they are, with their mistakes, and they do the same - love the way you are.

6. Bad guys live in the present. Good ones usually reflect on future - they might have many plans but until they are planning, bad guys have already took the first step. As i said, they are not afraid, and they are spontanious. They live now, they make future.

7. Bad guys can influence others but they can't be influenced. They have strong will, and if they decided to do someting, they will not give up even if the whole world is against them. If he chose you, wahetever happens, whatever his family or friends say, he won't change his mind. He will love you even more.

8. Bad guys are not afraid of your mood-changing. They like adventures and they are brave, so they can handle you even in a histeric mood. Good guys would run away and come back when you are fine - but a bad guy is not afraid and he knows what to do when it comes to a fight or crying or stressing out. There is no guarantee that bad guy will help you. But he will definitely try. And there is nothing special here. He just likes feeling like a hero. He is.

9. Bad guys look good in any clothes. Good guys want to dress well, but it sometimes gets unnatural because they don't have confidence and they try to compensate for that through a costume. Fail. Bad guys feels comfortable in any clothes - sport suit, ripped jeans or anything else. They look interesting whatever they wear, it is about them, not about their clothing. They don't have to prove anything - they already did. (But if a bad guy is really stylish...well...call me immediately.)

10. Bad guys - let's confess - are hot. But even if he is not that good looking, all these things above make him stunning...


Most of the girls say that they want to date with bad guys and marry a good guy, but i don't really get it. I'm sure that i will marry a bad guy...

If you have any other ideas why girls like bad guys, or why not, please feel free to share it in a comment or email!

xoxo
Lydia Finlandia

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